If I inspire one person to chase their dreams then my day will be complete.
What do you desire? Do you desire a better job? A new car? Maybe a better car? Do you rent and wish to own your own home? Many that read this may get all defensive and come up with a 100 and 1 excuses why they just can’t do it but the only problem is that you can lie to everyone you know but you can never lie to yourself. I know the truth, they know the truth but for some reason we always feel that we can fool everyone else. I am not writing this to piss anyone off or offend anyone. I was inspired to write this because every day I meet people that have a million and 1 excuses to fail but do not. They strive and although things are IM-possible they make it POSSIBLE. How do they do it? I think about it often. The answer is simple…. It is because they have the DESIRE to do it. Many of you just said, I HAVE DESIRE! I desire to be rich. I desire to have a better job. I desire to be in a better relationship. DO YOU? Do you really want it bad enough? Bottom line is that when you really, truly want something bad enough you figure it out and you do get it! Think about all of the times in your life that you made up your mind and put all of your focus on a goal and magically things lined up and BAM you got it! So let us be honest with each other… We all want success but can you honestly say to yourself that you dedicated every bit of energy to reaching your goals?
QUICK QUESTION: Who is the most important person to you?
Don't answer yet...let's move on. Hold that thought.
I think a very important bridge you need to cross before you decide you want success is what does success mean to you?
LUXURY CARS AND A HOUSE ON THE HILL?
THE WINNING POWERBALL NUMBERS?
ALL OF YOUR KIDS MADE IT OUT ALIVE FROM THE PROJECTS?
MAYBE SUCCESS TO YOU IS THE WHITE PICKET FENCE, MARRIED TO SUSIE
HOMEMAKER AND THAT YAPPY FLUFFY DOG & A SHINY NEW SUV IN THE DRIVEWAY.
Sounds ridiculous but a very important set of plans before you cast off looking to set sail and find your pot of golden success! What is it to you? If you are in a marriage it may be very important to communicate what your plans are before sharing your life with a partner! Her idea of success was a family and the 9-5. My idea was NYC, RAVES, NIGHTCLUBS & HOUSE & TECHNO MUSIC! DJing and perfoming in a live group dressed up in military grade gasmask and tyveks suits. That was BRAINPROBE and all I wanted was to make people dance and that I did for many years which drove that wonderful relationship into painful and long divorce. I was a stupid boy but I learned and I learned very quickly. So do not ASS U ME! Talk it out. You cannot and should not force your dreams and goals down someones throat!
Excuse the little side vent but I felt it was very important!! Let us bring it back around.....
So can you honestly say that you truly dedicate all of your energy into your goals or for some you do and others ya kind of half ass it..... BE HONEST, Think about it. Don't answer right now. Take the day and think about it. I sit and listen to Jack Canfield, Tony Robbins. I have watched The Secret and talked about it enough with people that it is no longer a secret and honestly everyone pretty much knew the Secret before it became a secret! :) I have devoted hours, days and weeks listening to all of the positive speakers and life coaches and honestly nothing they say really is new to me and I doubt to you! I know what they are going to say before they say it. I can finish their sentences and know where they are headed in their speeches and so many people roll their eyes when you talk about listening to life coaches but the bottom line is that setting your goals, writing it down, repeating it daily and faking it before you make it does work. How can it not? If you sit there and repeat negative messages to yourself over and over or surround yourself with negative people how could you possibly expect to succeed?All you are doing is reprogramming your brain, changing the way you think. BELIEVE IN YOU! SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE THAT BELIEVE IN YOU & YOU WILL SUCCEED!!! It is Guaranteed! Don't believe me? Then pay the $800 to $5000 to have Tony Robbins tell you! God bless him! He is really a GURU of LIFE and he makes his money because he figured "IT" out!
Through my life I have set my mind to achieve certain goals and looking back they were accomplished!!! The goals I did not accomplish I can look back and think that I may have said I wanted it but I knew deep down inside that although I wanted it and I wouldn’t of minded to get it did I truly DESIRE it!
I highly recommend you learn from the best teacher you can learn from...YOURSELF!
I am constantly analyzing myself. I tend to do it in the shower or on my porcelain pedestal. I ask myself about certain decisions I made. I ask myself why I did them. I never get mad at myself cause the decisions were already made so why beat yourself up. Just learn from it. You can pick up the best lessons from your mistakes.
So to recap….it is not mumbo jumbo! If you really, truly want something GO AFTER IT!!! The only thing keeping you from succeeding is YOU!
No one else!
Need to be inspired?
Find a mentor!
Create a group of positive people!
Then WORK &
WORK and if you FAIL, remember that
FAILING does not mean STOP it is a temporary obstacle and you will just have to figure out another way to keep going!!! This is where you will see for yourself if you really want it bad enough you will reach your goal!
Learn from yourself.
Don't crucify yourself.
Just analyze the past decisions, and see how you can better yourself and just move forward.
I keep mentioning YOU! Why? Who is the most important person to you?
I wish you all of the success you are willing to work for!
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